I run one position across three wallets to cap size per account and managing it during a move is brutal

Reason I spread it is partly that I don't want the whole position sitting on one address, and partly a single order that size pushes the book against me, so I break it up. Makes sense until I actually have to manage it.

When the market moves and I want to tighten a stop or add margin, I do it on the first wallet, then switch and redo the identical adjustment on the second, then the third. On a fast move that's the gap between getting all three done in time and watching the last one sit there with the old stop while I'm still clicking through accounts.

This isn't a tracking thing, I know exactly what's in each one. It's that one decision becomes three identical manual actions and the market doesn't wait around while I do them.

How do you all handle running a position across a few wallets when you need to move on all of them at once? Do you just do it serially and accept the lag, or is there a setup where one adjustment hits all of them. Feels like anyone splitting size has to run into this.